Personal Self Assessment
Find Your Next Growth Path
A short assessment to clarify where your inner work will have the biggest impact right now—healing, values, expression, letting go, integrity, or systems.
“Most people don’t get stuck because they’re not trying….
They get stuck because they keep doing more of the same kind of work.”
The Problem
Does this sound familiar?
Have you ever:
Gone deep into therapy… then hit a wall, talking about the same patterns for years?
Built elaborate routines and systems… but still end up in the same loops?
Meditated consistently… but still avoid certain emotions or conversations?
Big gains at first. Then a long, frustrating plateau.
The Explanation
What’s actually going on:
It’s not that your approach is wrong.
It’s that each path of growth has limits:
Therapy without systems can stay abstract
Systems without self-compassion become punishment
Meditation without real-world honesty becomes avoidance
When one domain is underdeveloped, it quietly drags the others down.
The work that helped you five years ago might not be the work you need now.
“What got you here won’t get you there.”
The Paths
Awareness and The Six Paths
Under everything is one core skill:
Awareness
- The ability to notice thoughts, emotions, and patterns as they’re happening—without immediately reacting to them.
That same awareness can be directed into different domains of your life.
This assessment looks at six of them:
Healer
- How you relate to your emotional history and your inner voice.
Heart
- How clearly you know and honor what truly matters to you.
Creator
- How freely you act and express yourself, even when it’s imperfect.
Builder
- How you work with reality, feedback, and systems to actually change things.
Guardian
- How much your actions line up with easing, not amplifying, suffering.
Seeker
- How you relate to thoughts and feelings as passing experiences rather than your entire identity.
Awareness is the thread that runs through all of them.
This assessment helps you see which path most needs that awareness right now.
What You’ll Get:
In about 7–10 minutes, you’ll:
See which path is most active for you right now
Get a clear explanation of what that path means in everyday life
Understand why your old growth strategy might be stalling
Get simple next-step ideas for where to focus your effort and attention
No diagnoses. No “fixing.”
Just a sharper map for the season you’re in.
